Mum responds to shamers who called her breastfeeding pictures 'gross'

'Today another attempt to shame me on my social media was tried...'

February 23 2017

[TROLLS] If u've followed me for a while, u will know that I've adored the breastfeeding journey I'm on with Madden, it continues to b one of my life's sweetest of joys & I am gratified & incredibly passionate about it. Despite best efforts within society, there is still controversy & somewhat 'taboo' surrounding breastfeeding, today another attempt to shame me on my social media was tried...Firstly, there is nothing 'weird' or 'gross' about these photos & there's no difference in me feeding my child with my breast than someone feeding him/herself with a spoon! Secondly, how about we simply appreciate that any mother has options, the right to her own choices, to feel supported & respected, the right to not have to hide, in fact the right to SHARE & POST proudly if she feels comfortable to do so! ... FACT: Mothers don't post these images & videos purely for attention. They don't post photos purely to make a statement. They don't post coz they think everyone should nurse their child out in the open. They don't post advocating that breastfeeding is the only way a baby should be fed. They post because they are #proud, to give other mums encouragement, they post so that other mums feel accepted, supported & respected. So that mums know that it is ok, in fact it is more than just OK, it is celebrated & admired. We share photos to let all mothers know that however u feed ur child, breast or bottle, that it's a beautiful act & bond between a mother & her young, we share photos to advocate that it can be done wherever, whenever & HOWEVER (covered or uncovered) & that u can do so without judgement. Mummy's I urge u to keep posting ur photos, don't fall victim to these people who want to discourage u, keep doing the good work of mothering!!👊🏼 ... I'm damn proud & confident to STAND UP to people's ignorance & enjoy the bonding with my child for all it is worth. If my breastfeeding pics bother u, unfriend, unfollow or plain old mind ur own damn business! ... 💁🏽MUMMIES!!! I put this to U, let's stand up, tag ur fellow mums, repost this &/or post ur fav (past or present) FEEDING photo,TAG ME & hashtag #wefeedunited oh & feel free to tag @picmat to rub salt in the wounds too 😘
[TROLLS] If u've followed me for a while, u will know that I've adored the breastfeeding journey I'm on with Madden, it continues to b one of my life's sweetest of joys & I am gratified & incredibly passionate about it. Despite best efforts within society, there is still controversy & somewhat 'taboo' surrounding breastfeeding, today another attempt to shame me on my social media was tried...Firstly, there is nothing 'weird' or 'gross' about these photos & there's no difference in me feeding my child with my breast than someone feeding him/herself with a spoon! Secondly, how about we simply appreciate that any mother has options, the right to her own choices, to feel supported & respected, the right to not have to hide, in fact the right to SHARE & POST proudly if she feels comfortable to do so! ... FACT: Mothers don't post these images & videos purely for attention. They don't post photos purely to make a statement. They don't post coz they think everyone should nurse their child out in the open. They don't post advocating that breastfeeding is the only way a baby should be fed. They post because they are #proud, to give other mums encouragement, they post so that other mums feel accepted, supported & respected. So that mums know that it is ok, in fact it is more than just OK, it is celebrated & admired. We share photos to let all mothers know that however u feed ur child, breast or bottle, that it's a beautiful act & bond between a mother & her young, we share photos to advocate that it can be done wherever, whenever & HOWEVER (covered or uncovered) & that u can do so without judgement. Mummy's I urge u to keep posting ur photos, don't fall victim to these people who want to discourage u, keep doing the good work of mothering!!👊🏼 ... I'm damn proud & confident to STAND UP to people's ignorance & enjoy the bonding with my child for all it is worth. If my breastfeeding pics bother u, unfriend, unfollow or plain old mind ur own damn business! ... 💁🏽MUMMIES!!! I put this to U, let's stand up, tag ur fellow mums, repost this &/or post ur fav (past or present) FEEDING photo,TAG ME & hashtag #wefeedunited oh & feel free to tag @picmat to rub salt in the wounds too 😘

Setting the record straight, Muller says, “Firstly, there is nothing ‘weird’ or ‘gross’ about these photos & there's no difference in me feeding my child with my breast than someone feeding him/herself with a spoon!

“Secondly, how about we simply appreciate that any mother has options, the right to her own choices, to feel supported & respected, the right to not have to hide, in fact the right to SHARE & POST proudly if she feels comfortable to do so!”

 

[INNOCENT EYES] Watch a child discover something new, isn't it just beautiful? Their excitement and wonderment is like no other. Children notice things us adults tend to miss. Attempt to see what life is like from their perspective and maybe we'll notice a few more things we've been missing and be grateful for things we easily forget 🌻 #takealeaf ... Happy Tuesday 😘 . . ______________________________________________________ #rawhonesttruth #toddler #mumsofinstagram #babiesofinstagram #instababy #uniteinmotherhood #childhoodunplugged #candidchildhood #lifewithababy #babyspam #umh_kids #motherhood #mumlife #realparenting #letthembelittle #parenthood #instalove #babiesofig #love #picoftheday #instamum #instamoment #instagood #perspective
[INNOCENT EYES] Watch a child discover something new, isn't it just beautiful? Their excitement and wonderment is like no other. Children notice things us adults tend to miss. Attempt to see what life is like from their perspective and maybe we'll notice a few more things we've been missing and be grateful for things we easily forget 🌻 #takealeaf ... Happy Tuesday 😘 . . ______________________________________________________ #rawhonesttruth #toddler #mumsofinstagram #babiesofinstagram #instababy #uniteinmotherhood #childhoodunplugged #candidchildhood #lifewithababy #babyspam #umh_kids #motherhood #mumlife #realparenting #letthembelittle #parenthood #instalove #babiesofig #love #picoftheday #instamum #instamoment #instagood #perspective

Muller goes onto explain why mums share breastfeeding pictures on Instagram and it has nothing to do with wanting “attention” or making a "statement".

They do it because they are “proud”. “We share photos to let all mothers know that however you feed ur child, breast or bottle, that it’s a beautiful act & bond between a mother & her young, we share photos to advocate that it can be done wherever, whenever & HOWEVER (covered or uncovered) & that u can do so without judgement.”